We all know the importance of maintaining a healthy, loving relationship with our significant other. But when one of the partners is a school principal, the grind of long working hours and the constant pressure to perform can make it difficult to find quality time with the spouse.
As a principal’s spouse, you may feel like your husband or wife is spending too much time at work, leaving you feeling isolated and unimportant. But there are a few things you can do to ensure that the two of you are making time for each other and strengthening your relationship.
First, it’s important to be understanding of the unique stress that comes with the job of a school principal. As a partner, you should recognize the importance of them dedicating time and energy to their position, even if it means getting home late some days or taking work home on the weekends.
Next, try to find ways to spend quality time together that don’t include work talk. Going out for dinner, seeing a movie, or taking a weekend getaway – the time doesn’t have to always be about work.
Finally, commit to doing something together each day. Whether it’s eating dinner together, watching an episode of your favorite show, or walking the dog, find ways to make sure you’re taking time to connect each day.
Life as a principal’s spouse can be challenging sometimes, but it doesn’t have to mean sacrificing quality time with your partner. With a bit of understanding and creativity, you can make sure that no matter how busy life gets, you’re always carving out time for the two of you.
- Dr. Kimberly Galloway
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